Well, does my small adjustment theory really work? Yes, when I actually make the adjustment.
As far as the driving, well………… that isn’t going as well as I would like, but it really does work when I let it. One day I decided that I would let everyone go in front of me, waiting in line at the store, merging on the freeway, whatever. It made a much longer day since I tend to do everything at top speed, but what a revelation!! I took this to the limit so much it was ridiculous. But, at the end of the day I had to laugh that this little change can turn an “I am having a bad day” person into someone else. Every demonic person I met driving that day I made room for and with a smile. It turned the most road rage hopped up on caffeine street roder into a teddy bear. I felt like Saint Theresa at the end of the day. Good feeling.