In yesterday’s blog I shared my need to have a “Tonto”, in my life to focus me on the task at hand. I caught you all up on all the many Tonto like people in my life to this point. I have always believed that fate or G-d or some higher power, puts something or someone in our paths when we need them and as one of them leaves someone will take their place.

I have come now to understand that it is not really the other person, but their ability to allow you to see your own strengths more clearly. About six months ago I had an e-mail from a high school classmate, asking for some information for a newsletter he is publishing on-line about our class. I really never knew him and he is living half way across the country, but I answered the e-mail, and we began corresponding back and forth. It turns out he is a corporate coach and for some reason he sent me a list of questions to answer when he found out I had been a motivational speaker. Continue reading →